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OASISIt may sounds absurd...but won't you concede...even heroes have the right to dream 9월 16일 朋友们的幽默感 <一> 酒后驾车 最近全国上下都在严打酒后驾车。一天和几个朋友吃饭，饭后就我一个人要开车回宾馆，于是我连连说，不能喝酒不能喝酒。这几位极品说“没问题没问题”。菜一上来：醉鸡醉虾醉鱼干还加一道酒酿丸子…… （特别声明我一道都没有碰） <二> 迟到的借口 WW前两天从澳洲回来约着一起吃饭，说好十点半在世纪大道地铁站的12号口等。我起床迟了点，晚了10分钟，于是十点半的时候发了条短信给他说：“不好意思要晚10分钟，主要是想给你一个机会参观新竣工的世纪大道地铁站”。 WW回过来一条短信“…………”我想他是对我的狡辩无语，没在意。 一分钟后他又来了一条短信把我笑坏了“参观完了. One dot for each gate.” 9월 3일 没心没肺没感觉的活着 我认为从工作开始，我就一直没心没肺没感觉的活着。是的，没心没肺没感觉，只是有脑。 在高中过那些磨磨唧唧的小日子的时候，我一定不会想到，能在一起消磨如此多的时间，是多么宝贵。什么都没有，只有时间。中午午睡的时间，晚饭后在教室里打乒乓的时间，自修后结伴去吃夜宵的时间，半夜躺在床上天南地北的时间。贫嘴的时间。斗气的时间。猜测的时间。无聊的时间。无聊是一种奢侈，而厌倦是一种悲哀。 而如今，邮件、短信、电话都变成了奢侈品。我不知道感情是什么时候被拉伸延展到了偌大一个世界，相隔如此遥远的距离。相思的人，却只能寄希望于漫长等待后短暂的相逢。然后回归到漫长的等待。 一直想和父母兄弟姐妹好好去休个假。一年又一年，却只能在春节时例行公事或偶尔出差匆匆路过家门。当我习惯性的拿起电话，打给他们时，突然想，我是否在他们的生活里已经退化成了那不耐烦的铃声？ 遇到如此多大大小小的困难起伏，再柔软的心也会被磨出坚硬的外壳。再者，我的心本就只有那么几个柔软的甜点，于是更是没心没肺。如今，焦急、惊喜、沮丧等等感觉已被中和。只是在一个人拖着行李箱在五洲四海穿梭的过程中，当重病的夜晚辗转反侧时，当孤独的困在暴雨中的机场时，在心底深处的那个小孩子忍不住探出头时，突然想抓住什么。只能是电话。再多的爱、担忧与关切都只能变成电波模拟信号。我不喜欢本科时的模拟电路课。 我想念季节分明的感觉。想念重庆酷夏在阳光下的挥汗如雨，想念复旦南区秋季浸人心脾的桂花香，想念初冬父母提醒添衣时我的执拗，想念春天悄悄来临时内心的萌动。 如今，我西装革履的坐在终年25度的办公室或者车里。冷时套上一件长长的大衣，热时解开牢系的领带。只是偶尔在做工作计划时，看着日历想，哦，秋天快到了。 可我的大脑一刻不停的再思考，不容失误的思考。不在工作的时候，我会想，我要如何走一遭这不能重复的人生？我问我自己，我是不是对自己太苛求，从不给自己犯错的机会？为何我要想在如此少的时间里，疯狂的做如此多的事情？听到陈奕迅的《今天只做一件事》，不仅感叹。 我固执的去找出来那首Love Doesn't Ask Why，反复播放。你知道，这是一首对我来说，只属于十年前的你的歌。 我羡慕《花样年华》里，张曼玉与梁朝伟凭借味觉来了解情敌的敏感。 我想念那些平淡、坦荡、简单，但无私相爱的日子。用一个庸俗而矫情的词来形容，我们的纯真年代。人们常常在回忆年少轻狂的感情时说，那时我们还太年轻。但当我们成熟后，有几人还保留着那份只要简单相守的执著？ 8월 17일 随便想想（四） <一> 笑话两则 一则转载，一则原创。 北京单双号限行的第一天，公交车上超级挤，有一对夫妻站在门口，从车后面挤过来一个男子要下车，跟那女的说了一句“让一下，下车”，那个女的没有动。男子挤过去时就踩到她了，结果那女人好厉害的，不停的骂“神经病啊你！神经病啊你！~~”，还超大声，搞得全车都看，男子一直没有说话，下车时忍不了了，回头对那女人说，“复读机呀你！”全车人暴笑……后来后边有几个搞笑的小孩，不停的扮演刚才的一幕，甲说“你神经病呀你！”乙说“你复读机呀你”后来有个小女生也要下车，挤过去怯怯的说“我...我..我想想下车，我不是神经病~！”全车人再次暴笑~！那个女人没有说话，可是从边上飘来一句话“你是不是没电了”…… 前段时间300年一次的日全食那天，我和某人正开车在路上。在那五分钟的高潮阶段，路上漆黑一片，我们俩一边开车一边好奇的观赏着这难得一见的天文奇观，突然某人说了一句“日全食的时候怎么会这么黑，月亮到哪儿去了？”我怔了一下，想了一想，觉得这确实是个问题，然后很认真说“所以日全食这么难得，要300年一次才有一次啊，因为要恰好没有月光的时候才能看得到”…… <二> 写给中老年读者朋友们 一天和几个朋友讨论一起去度假，建议找个海滩，大家一起租栋有游泳池的别墅，晒晒太阳，睡睡懒觉，做做水上运动，吃吃美食，再租辆敞篷跑车开着出去兜兜风。本以为这样的提议过于休闲，不会得到响应，哪知道众人纷纷附和，让我不禁感叹大家都已经上了年纪，不复当年徒步背包走西藏的雄心壮志。人一过了25岁生物钟这个点，变化真是明显：以前夜夜笙歌、声色犬马的，变成了温婉贤淑的宅男宅女；以前见到帅哥美女就心猿意马的，谈论起了天长地久、生儿育女；以前大口喝酒、大口吃肉的，如今犹抱琵琶半遮面的谈起了节食。 最近工作异常繁忙，精神压力很大，所以迪迪不仅开始看康熙来了、快乐大本营（颇为喜欢谢娜）等恶俗搞笑节目，还时不时瞄上两眼湖南卫视的山寨偶像剧《一起来看流星雨》，一边看一边感叹，90后已经正式走到了历史舞台的中央。也许是出于中年危机，迪迪最近刮了一个很IN的短发，并在左侧剃出了如刀疤一般的图案，还打算开始学电吉他，贝斯、键盘、鼓手、主唱欢迎来信联系。中老年朋友们，让我们一起来抓住青春的尾巴，最后疯狂一把。 7월 22일 On U.S. Presidential DebateRevisited the U.S. presidential debate tapes - it was inspiring, and even empowering to watch how powerful people like Obama and McCain behaved under stress in such a historical event (although the VP candidates are much more entertaining). Obama went into the debate with a two-digit lead. Strategically, he needed to do three things: 1) strengthen the image that he successfully established - that made Clinton look like a calculating and polarizing policy wonk and McCain an outdated and ignorant warhead - young, energetic, eloquent, intelligent and composed; 2) emphasize the connection between George Bush and McCain and turn the election into a referendum on the Bush doctrines; 3) try to avoid stimulating, if not to reduce, distrust among working-class white male electorate. Effective management of his campaign throughout the electrion process has put him at this vantage point. On McCain's side, after publicly making certain comments he is now probably regretting in his Arizona desert house ("economy is not something that I've understood well, nor do I think it's necessary to", "the fundamentals of our economy is strong"), he first needed to prove that he had the capability to understand and manage complicated economic situations. Secondly, he needed to emphasize the difference between him and Mr Bush. Thirdly, he needed to attack Obama wherever possible in the hope that Obama may falter. However, this is a weapon that should be used very carefully because failing to do so will make him look like a desperate and self-centered politician. Obama did a very good job. When it comes to the content, he focused on the debate questions and important issues, articulated his policy (in bullet points, surprisingly:)) in an easily-understood and consistent fashion, forcefully and concisely rebutted McCain's attacks. Style-wise, he looked into the camera directly and spoke to the audience as if he had already been the president in an assuring manner. He remained polite and humble even when McCain was arrogant and irritating. He demonstrated his ability to reach across the aisle by disagreeing with McCain without being disagreeable. He gave the audience the impression that he could respond calmly under huge pressure, a quality that is essential in such an economic turmoil; he understood the important issues and key priorities very well and was well-informed on his decisions; rather than a selfish power contender, he appeared to be the selfless and charismatic leader. McCain's performance was so poor that it actually surprised me. Instead of directly answering the question, he repeated a few arguments many times no matter what the question was and oftentimes made irrational/emotional comments to boast about his credential and experience and attack Obama's track record and age (which was a fatal mistake I believe). His answers were far from being structured; rather than giving people a clear and holistic view on his policies, he dwelled into trivial details again and again and seemed quite lost sometimes in his own response. He did not enjoy the debate, nor did he respect Obama. And he made no effort hiding his arrogance and impatience - I wish the smirks were his designed strategy rather than due to his incapability to control his emotions. To make things worse, his performance deteriorated significantly from the first debate to the last debate. While I respect McCain for his effort in pushing forward the climate change legislation, his ignorance and arrogance in the debates shocked and disappointed me. For a voter like me, Obama's intellectual and emotional capacity completely overshadowed McCain. However, McCain actually came out as winner in the GOP primary (well Mitt Romney could have a better chance to win if he had not been such a flipflop) - there must be millions of Americans who were still excited and motivated by McCain's style. Not to even mention Sarah Palin! Again, a lesson to remind us how different people can be - a fact that always needs to be remembered in politics. |
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